Summer is synonymous with vacation and activity, but it can also be a chance to slow down and reflect. Midyear is the perfect time to evaluate how things have been going and recommit to your goals. If you’ve lost focus or stalled on any goals, it’s time to explore why. We’re only halfway through the year and there’s still lots of time to course-correct (if you choose to).
We’ve created a practice worksheet with some prompts to guide you through a reflection on the last six months. Go at your own pace, skip over questions or come back to them—it’s your choice. But try to be as honest and vulnerable with yourself as possible.
So, grab an iced coffee or tea and a quiet space—it’s time to reconnect with your purpose and get your momentum back!
If you haven’t done it already, write down your goals from the beginning of the year. As you look over the list, ask yourself:
Life isn’t linear, and the same goes for goals. Think about both your personal victories and what may be blocking you. Inconsistencies can be an opportunity to reflect and recommit.1 And recognizing your little wins can boost confidence and foster resilience.2
Take some time to think about what truly motivates you. Perhaps it has changed slightly as time has passed. Maybe you’re pregnant, and the upcoming arrival of your little one has become a driving force to tend to your mental health. Maybe you yearn to travel after retirement to honor your parents’ cultural heritage. Whatever it is, identifying your “why” can help solidify the path toward your goals.
Remember that it’s OK to refine your goals and change the finish line. Oftentimes, we tend to think about who we are in the moment when we set goals, as opposed to who we will be in the future. Our needs and wants change over time. We learn and grow, and what we want out of life does too.
After reflection, you may find that you need to tweak your goals a bit. You’ve learned a lot from your previous attempts. Try these strategies that may help you going forward:
Long-term change requires you to figure out what works for you. We all have different preferences, circumstances and past experiences. What is realistic for you? View your progress so far on your goal as a small experiment. Things don’t always go as planned. Not reaching a goal or needing to change it does not mean failure as long as you learn something about yourself or the process.
Life is a journey, and so is good health. We have the tools and support to help you every step of the way.
Picture yourself at 90. What would you like your legacy to be?
1https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/reflect-and-reset/202106/turning-reflection-identity-plans-and-goals
2https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/liking-the-child-you-love/202310/the-most-overlooked-strategy-for-success
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